It is assumed by most clinical, mental health experts that men who stalk women have borderline personality disorders and are unable to relate to or connect with a woman. In other words they are unable to have healthy relationships with women. As a result, these men in particular are addicted to porn that objectifies women resulting in unrealistic standards of women's appearances. They will use women to masturbate, they will fantasize about them, and they will struggle with mental delusions, imagining an intimate relationship with a woman when there is not one. These men have a hard time separating in their mind reality from fantasy. As the frustration builds due to an inability to connect to the woman or have her reciprocate intimate or sexual fantasies, he will then make her the object of hate desiring to ruin her reputation and threaten her safety. The romantic fantasies, delusions and unrequited love result in a very agitated man who will stop at nothing to enact revenge on the object of his love/hate mental illness and addiction.
The characteristics present with a BPD (borderline personality disorder) are extreme jealousy, anxiety and OCD. These men tend to have rebound relationships and are incapable of desiring a woman unless she doesn't want them or the man can't have her. These men typically have co-dependency issues stemming from abandonment in childhood. These men also have severe control issues needing to dominate and usurp the woman's life in every way possible, even using surreptitious methods. They will utilize emotional blackmail to manipulate and are perfectionists with extreme rigidity. These men are more than likely to be attracted to inaccessible women such as long distance relationships because of their commitment phobias. Sometimes their seduction is emotional, opening up to the woman with excessive vulnerability. This seduction feeds their narcissistic fantasies. To the BPD man, the chase is intoxicating for him for outside of that he gets bored. Borderline females are the only ones who are better at this game than he is so they can hold his attention indefinitely.
Delusional disorder or paranoid disorder is a type of serious mental illness called "psychosis" in which a person can not tell what is real or what is imagined.
The Erotomaniac is a stalker who believes he is in love with a woman and REGARDLESS of the overwhelming evidence to the contrary, the feeling is reciprocal (he believes the woman is in love with him). He will interpret everything she does or does not do as coded messages confessing her internal devotion to the "relationship."
The Narcissist feels entitled to their victims' time, attention, admiration, and resources. Interprets every rejection as an act of aggression which leads to narcissist injury. They will react with vindictiveness but are completely immune to the consequences of their actions.
Abstract
The crime of stalking, raping, and harassing is not subjected to women only. Men have been victims as well; such as statistical reports of men being raped by other men in the military. This is not a "feminist" or "chauvinistic" problem but rather a MORAL problem with our world and the constant DEPRAVITY that assaults those who dwell in it. When will the blind finally begin to see that we have a very large problem with wickedness and depravity that is so disturbing it makes you want to vomit. Those that are deceitful, those that prevaricate, those that deny the truth are the ones who use diversionary tactics to deny the truth. Calling a woman a feminist because she voices her concern about the violence of rape, stalking and harassment is a diversionary tactic used to steer people away from seeing the wickedness in their own hearts and the wickedness of the culture they live in.
This is a moral issue. The difference between right and wrong. It has nothing to do with the label "feminist" or "chauvinist". The problem is, people are so messed up in their belief system that they don't even know the difference between right and wrong anymore. And you know why? Because no one cares about the wickedness and depravity and evil that goes on around us everyday. Perhaps we may care more when this evil comes knocking on our door and we will be permanently effected by it.
People have no moral compass. They are like rudderless ships that can not be steered but rather are completely at the mercy of the current or tide. These people, who have no moral compass, are those that are very easily manipulated into believing untruths and lies. They are easily psychologically manipulated and as a result wind up with a faulty mindset unable to determine the simple difference between right and wrong!